Heiiiiiiiiiii gawddddd!!!! I don't even know the right title for this or what I want to write about ( there's actually a lot of things to talk about that I don't know which to start with). Lol.

So, how did I even start this month? Okay, I'm always excited about each month because it means a big blessings from God to me, counted worthy to be alive. It also means another month to do something differently and achieve a goal. 

Ohkayyyyy, I remember now. 🤭 March started with Steve's girl ( I'd talk about her one day) sharing one 'joyful' picture on her status, one of my friends requested for it and made a beautiful graphic design of it. Typically, this month began joyfully for me, but right now I cannot really remember EXACTLY what happened this month. 
So, I will just share some deep lessons with you guys. Ready? 😹😋


I'm a content developer,(that is quite different from a content writer, you can google that) been doing writing jobs for an incredibly low amount.  No, I won't say it, you will beat me.😩😩😩😩 It was not a big deal until the day I heard the price rate some of my friends charges and I was like omohhhhhhh!!!!😭😭😭 I've not been rating myself sha. I then tried to justify myself that well, they knows their onions well and finds better opportunities, and I should find such opportunities too, I will do well, but it's lori iro  because I didn't see myself earning that much as per I haven't taken any professional courses on it.

Fast forward to when there was some 'matter arising' on Freelancers group, founded by Olamide Towobola( God bless that man) then someone made a statement that, " if you don't refuse the penny, the pounds won't come," and it sank deep into my heart. 
That means that, the success you desire, the kind of relationship you want, that thing you crave for, all begin from your mindset. If you don't envisioned yourself as being successful, you would definitely be boxing yourself.

Secondly, you're no superman. Yes, you are human who is wired not to be alone. You'd definitely need support. I used to bask in the glory of 'I can figure it out myself. I'd do my shii myself. I'm a strong woman blah blah blah,' but most of the times, I don't even get it done half way. This month alone, I did begi-begi with my full chest. Who hard geh epp?😹

So, incase you feel overwhelmed and you are not sure if you're still breathing. Speak up and loud dear! Nobody can kee you, worse thing that could ever happen is a "no" and nothing go do you.

Finally, coming through for your friends doesn't necessarily have to be monetarily alone. You can support them with kind words, texts and calls. This way, they will be convinced that you love them, its just that na sapa catch you.


Life is hard already, so don't make it harder. Love and love hard. Take reasonable risks and send me jpegs.🤭🤭🤭

PS: I started my industrial training (IT) already, so I'd be giving you premium gists about it and this biggest city in West Africa.

Thank y'all for coming to my Ted talk. 😹😹😹😹 Hope to see you next time. Until then, I remain your favorite host, Ecstasy.😌